Trust.. Wad is trust?? Trust is something that cant really be defined easily in words.. trust between friends can build up overtime.. but it can be destroyed too.. Sometimes trust can be easily destroyed.. Sometimes it is hard..

There are two questions in my mind.. when can we fully trust a person?? And how we know we really can trust that person?? I do not really know.. but I know that when you fully trust that person, that person normally is either your very close friend or your family members.. and I believe these people is really someone whom you can talk to and they wont abandon you whenever you are feeling upset… trust is not a thing that you want to trust means you can trust.. you have to see whether this person really worth your trust not.. when you tell him/her about your problems.. will she/he joke about it?? Will they tell others when you do not want others to know?? This kind of people does not worth it.. they do not worth your trust..

how do we gain trust from other people?? Most importantly is that in order to gain trust from other people.. you must 1st know how to trust people.. if you don’t trust people.. how will people trust you?? The logic is the same as respect.. When we trust people, the trust must come from your bottom of the heart.. if you pretend to trust people.. this is not trust.. this is hypocrite.. which most people dislike it!! Or even can say.. hate!

How can we build up trust? Trust is normally build up automatically when your relationship between your friends is getting better… when you and your friends are very close, but your friends still cant trust you.. then I believe that you must really go and think about it.. why do they still don’t trust you?? Is it your own fault? Did you break the trust?? When you promise people to do something.. make sure you do it.. if not they wont trust you anymore.. by doing things that you promised is also one of the way that we can build up trust… wad you promise.. you must finish it.. no matter how long you take to do it… building up trust is not as easy as what we think… sometimes it can be very difficult.. coz your 1st impression on that person is already very poor.. Your reputation is already smeared.. how can you expect them to trust you? If you are in the kind of dilemma, you must try to change their impression towards you, build up your reputation before they will start trust you again.

If you cant even trust yourself.. how will people trust you? So.. no matter what decision you do.. trust yourself.. trust yourself that the decision you had made.. prove it to others.. the decision you made is correct.. in this way.. people will then start to trust you..

Trust can be as easy as abc.. but it also can be very difficult.. as long as you trust people.. trust yourself which is the most importantly.. people will then slowly trust you.. and the trust between u and him/her will be build up..